Let Me Reach with Kim Saeed

Narcissists Detach

Making the conscious choice to leave someone you still care about, or even love, is never easy.  We grieve the loss of memories, shared moments, and the dream of what could have been.  Breakups and divorces are painful enough, but when trying to leave a Narcissistic partner, it’s a whole different ballgame.

It may not seem like it at first, but if you were discarded by your Narcissist instead of the other way around, you are one step ahead of the game.  Granted, he will show off his new supply like an award trophy, making you feel inadequate, undesirable, and unworthy, but the thing to remember is that he doesn’t treat you that way because you deserve it.  He does it so that he doesn’t have to accept accountability.  It’s painful, for sure, but recognize it for the childish behavior it is.  Narcissists, while having normal or above-average intelligence, are emotionally…

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