People who end up the targets of narcissistic abuse and abuse by other toxic personalities typically have the above traits. Yet they end up with a feeling of worthlessness.
Most people would not and could not tolerate the behaviors of the narcissist. Only someone with extreme patience, tolerance, and a willingness to extend themselves to the toxic person, would be a victim of abuse.
Narcissists and other abuser do not try to choose targets that lack empathy, or a sense of fairness. They seek out the most kind, and compassionate people to target.
Don’t get me wrong. You should set boundaries and never be the victim of abuse again. You can still retain all of your good qualities, but you need to add boundaries for yourself.
Even though victims of abuse tend to posses compassionate qualities and are kind and caring people. they end up feeling worthless and like a…
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